none of my business but being me, i'll comment anw. i understand that once you're a couple, you may want to spend time with each other all the time. what i dont get is why one party wants to start to control the other. i've seen way too many cases of boyfriends not allowing their significant others to go out with their friends or wear certain clothes etc etc. for goodness sake, if my parents who gave me life have no comments of about the above, who gave you the right to? and very often, it's the little things like these that lead to arguments. sometimes, i think people should just grow up. there's an extent to care and concern that turns into obsessive possession. and i dont understand why my friends can allow that. it's one thing to willingly make compromises. it's another altogether to do something (or not do) because their boyfriends dont allow them to.
i cant help but think that to a certain extent, we're making use of each other mutually.
when you're on the brink of losing everything, there are times when tides turn and you gain so much more instead.
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